Sunday, November 17, 2019
Post-graduation depression is a very real mental health issue
Post-graduation depression is a very real mental health issue Post-graduation depression is a very real mental health issue Graduating from college is supposed to be an exciting, happy time. Your whole future is ahead of you, and final exams are behind. For some grads, though, graduation isnât all tossing caps up in the air accompanied by happiness. In fact, it can be the complete opposite - enter: post-graduation depression.What is post-graduate depressionWhile post-graduation depression isnât an official diagnosis or mental illness like clinical depression is, itâs very much a real phenomenon. And Iâve got news for you, âtis the season for post-graduation depression!âAll of a sudden, you kind of realize you donât have anything to do, youâve just been laying in bed all day and saying that youâre going to look for jobs. I realized something was wrong when I was looking for jobs but not really trying hard,â college grad, Gina*, now 24, recalls of her experience with post-college depression. âI got into this mindset where I was thinking, âWhat makes me think that Iâll get thi s job over the million other creatives in New York City?â I didnât have any routine. Every day I was less and less motivated until I was watching full seasons of Netflix all day long. I was sleeping until 5 pm and up until 4 am having panic attacks.âFollow Ladders on Flipboard!Follow Laddersâ magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and more!Sadly, Christinaâs experience is far from uncommon.Graduating is a huge life changeLife transitions can be stressful and triggering for anyone - even people who donât have a pre-existing mental illness. Graduating from college and entering âthe real worldâ is perhaps one of the most jarring life transitions a young adult can face.Rachel OâNeill, Ph.D., explains, âChange, in general, can bring about feelings of sadness. College graduation represents a major life transition and with that transition can come feelings of sadness or concern about the future. For many, graduating college can mean that multiple aspects of their life change relatively quickly (i.e., finding a new place to live, starting a new job, meeting new people). In essence, this becomes a bit of change-overload and it can be overwhelming for many individuals to navigate these additional stressors.âGraduating can also bring rejectionAnother unfortunate stressor? Rejection. While a lucky bunch easily finds jobs soon after graduation, a lot of grads have to deal with rejection - and a lot of it. Getting rejected from job applications and interviews can take a serious toll on oneâs self-esteem - and rejection is even more common in some industries than others (to the graduates who are fellow writersâ¦hang in there!)Signs and Symptoms of Post-Graduate DepressionWhether a recent grad is coping with rejection and trying to get a job or navigating the struggles of their first ârealâ job that theyâve already landed, post-college depression has a few different ways it can manifest.â Individuals who are experiencing post-college sadness might notice that they feel sad or disconnected from their previous lifestyle as a college student; however, often they will be able to find joy in other areas of their life (for example, spending time with family or friends),â OâNeill says. âIf an individual feels pretty sad and depressed and isnât finding joy in other areas of their life, then it could be a good opportunity to talk with a mental health professional.âNot finding enjoyment in things that used to bring you enjoyment is one of the many telltale signs of depression, and could be a sign that what youâre experiencing is more than just the blues. Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, LCSW-S, warns, âAddiction or substance abuse is a common sign. Graduating college creates a void in our life. Therefore, we might turn to things or activities so to fill this void. It can be alcohol, cigarettes, or any other type of drug or activity.âLooking for another indicator to determine if your post-college blues could be headed towards clinical depression? âClinical depression is characterized by feelings of despondency and dejection that prevent us from completing our daily activities and interfere with work or relationships. The latter usually lasts longer and is more notorious,â Catchings says. So if you feel like you are really struggling day-to-day and having trouble doing even the most basic of things, itâs time to seek help from a mental health professional.How to Address Post-Graduate DepressionNo matter what level of sadness youâre experiencing, itâs important to really check in and take care of yourself. âGive yourself space to feel the emotions. Mindfulness practices can be really helpful in identifying emotions without judging them. Emotions are natural reactions to things that are going on in life,â OâNeill advises. âInstead of trying to escape the emotion, allow yourself to experience it while also thinking about how you can commit to focusing on your future. I also like incorporating extra self-care during times of heightened stress and sadness - things like daily affirmations or gratitude practices can be super helpful.âCatchings has some advice, too. âOne of the tips that I recommend to recent graduates is to add structure to their lives. Try to go to bed or wake up around the same time every day and create a schedule that not only works for you but that also allows you to work on and reach your professional goals. Another tip is to make sure that you eat at least three meals a day around the same time. That helps us to stay healthy but also to prevent emotional eating or eating disorders due to depression or anxiety.â If you want to be even more proactive, she suggests, âCreate a dream board or a timeline. This will allow you to set daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly goals.âIf youâve recently graduated and started to feel this way - itâs okay. I promise you that y ouâre not alone. I bet if you open up to some of your close friends who are fellow graduates, youâll learn that some of them feel the same way. Give yourself a big pat on the back for finishing college - itâs a huge accomplishment! As the pros said, allow yourself to feel all of the emotions and donât forget to practice extra self care. Now, go out there and face adulthood, youâve got this.This article originally appeared on Talkspace.You might also enjoy⦠New neuroscience reveals 4 rituals that will make you happy Strangers know your social class in the first seven words you say, study finds 10 lessons from Benjamin Franklinâs daily schedule that will double your productivity The worst mistakes you can make in an interview, according to 12 CEOs 10 habits of mentally strong people
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