The best lines to use on know-it-all coworkers

The best lines to use on know-it-all coworkersThe best lines to use on know-it-all coworkersAs your coworker cuts you off and starts dominating the meeting (yet AGAIN), your face flushes. You fight the urge to roll your eyes more than ever.Heres what to say to that coworker who doesnt know when to stop talking about why theyre always right.Show them that youll be an ally when you work together - but draw boundariesDr. Christine M. Allen, workplace psychologist and vice president of executive coaching firm Insight Business Works,tellsMonsterhow to get this point across.State your intention Id like to work on this project collaboratively, and I know we wont always agree. Id like the work to be a reflection of both of our ideas, Allen suggests.She continues, sometimes you will just have to be very direct. For instance, say, John, you have very strong opinions and I admire that however, I feel cut off and dismissed when you insist that you are right or are elend willing to compromise or collaborate with me.Get some background on why they believe what they doPut them on the spot.Michael Kerr, an international business speaker, president of Humor at Work, and author of The Humor Advantage Why Some Businesses are Laughing all the Way to the Bank,toldForbesthat you should do some digging.Ask why they believe something to be true or where they found their sources. Asking pointed questions on specific details can teach a know-it-all over time that they need to have their facts in order before speaking out, he told the publication.Tell them about the impact theyre having on othersIts not all about the know-it-all - or you, for that matter.Priscilla Claman, president ofCareer Strategies, Inc., suggests saying something like this to a coworker you have a good rapport with (and who you dont manage)in theHarvard Business Review.After asking to have a conversation with them, you can use these linesWe all know you are an expert in this area, but when you gave the answer right away, Nancy and Jorge immediately went quiet, so they didnt get a aussicht to think things through or give their own answers. Did you notice that? Claman writes.But she cautions that if you say this to someone you dont know well, you also run the risk of seeming like you know everything.Thank them for their thoughtsJust dont let them ruffle your feathers.Alison Green, author of theAsk a Managerblog, writesinU.S. News World Reportabout what to do when a know-it-all coworker likes to share where they stand on everything and critiques your job performance.Let it roll of your back. The more you ignore this person and dont let him get to you, the better. When he offers an unsolicited opinion, say, Thanks, Ill think about that. And if you find yourself getting frustrated, comfort yourself with the knowledge that this person is widely considered obnoxious. Youre definitely not the only one annoyed, Green writes.